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RE: should I of approached her?
04-29-2018 8:21 PM
(04-29-2018 8:08 PM)purpleblood Wrote: But psilocybin and LSD are illegal.. phenibut is legal and easy to get.
Yeah that's true in the US at least. I think it's either illegal or requires a prescription in Europe.
I found the origins of phenibut to be really intriguing as well, with the cosmonauts and all. Kinda making me want to buy some right now actually haha; it's been a few months since I last used it.
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RE: should I of approached her?
05-01-2018 10:39 AM
As other members have stated, a typical cold approach would have come across as creepy in this situation. You could have just said "Good to see you're recycling" or "So, you're not recycling yet"? with a cheeky grin, then just carry on what you were doing. This would let her know that you are confident, social but not a stalker, laying some foundations for the next encounter with her.
Just a note on cold approaching; don't ever let rejection get to you. A target might be a lesbian, an abuse victim, recently pregnant, a loyal partner, she might have an illness, she could be approaching her period, or she might just trying to hold a fart in when you approach. There are a thousand reasons for rejection, and very few of them are usually to do with you.
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RE: should I of approached her?
05-01-2018 3:54 PM
(05-01-2018 10:39 AM)LoveInSpain Wrote: As other members have stated, a typical cold approach would have come across as creepy in this situation. You could have just said "Good to see you're recycling" or "So, you're not recycling yet"? with a cheeky grin, then just carry on what you were doing. This would let her know that you are confident, social but not a stalker, laying some foundations for the next encounter with her.
Just a note on cold approaching; don't ever let rejection get to you. A target might be a lesbian, an abuse victim, recently pregnant, a loyal partner, she might have an illness, she could be approaching her period, or she might just trying to hold a fart in when you approach. There are a thousand reasons for rejection, and very few of them are usually to do with you.
Hahah this is really motivating
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RE: should I of approached her?
05-01-2018 5:45 PM
(05-01-2018 10:39 AM)LoveInSpain Wrote: Just a note on cold approaching; don't ever let rejection get to you. A target might be a lesbian, an abuse victim, recently pregnant, a loyal partner, she might have an illness, she could be approaching her period, or she might just trying to hold a fart in when you approach. There are a thousand reasons for rejection, and very few of them are usually to do with you.
THIS!
A long time ago me used to stop at me great aunts
ever so often.
There was a cute brunette gal across the street
whom me saw once in awhile. We was both
in late teens. One day me
and her started talkin and me asked her for
movie date. She politely declined.
After that, didnt see her that often
and when did would just smile and wave.
eventually me great aunt passed on.
Sos bout 15 years later...me just happen to be
done visitin other relatives and stroll through
me great aunts ole neighborhood.
and whom do me see? Her, still there.
Me walk over and she says “wow. haven’t seen you
in long time” we talk for awhile.
She asks me why me never asked her out again?
Me tells her why. She says “she had alot issues then
but wishes woulda asked her again”
Tells me she used ta sit on porch hoping to see me.
But our timings was off cause we never saw much of
each other after that.
Now we were both in relationships so nothing further.
Lesson: ask once: if she says no maybe not you.
Wait awhile, ask twice: you will have your answer whether
no or yes.
The second “no” usually means move on.
After youve recieved 2 definite no’s, anything
more could be creepy, depending on the gal.
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RE: should I of approached her?
05-01-2018 6:40 PM
Excellent advice and story! I grew up literally around the corner from my bride. We had mutual friends. We would see each other and even though we were both interested, we literally never spoke or were even in each others presence for more than five minutes despite going to the same school, having mutual friends, my going to rent movies from where she worked, etc.
Twenty years later I reconnect with a friend of mine who can't stop talking about a friend of hers from high school that SHE just reconnected with and how they were going to a haunted cemetery tour. Would I like to come with? Sure. The instant my bride and me locked eyes we 'clicked.' We've been either in contact or have seen each other literally every day since that night (and I wasn't even wearing pheromones). It just goes to show that occasionally things do work out but overall I am a much bigger fan of the phrase, 'Fortune favors the bold.' In every other ONS, FWB, Long Term Relationship and whatever other acronym you can think of, by being the one to take the chance, I've found that unless I ask, I might not get anywhere.
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