Sunday 8PM-9:30PM
Venue: University, lecture with semi-formal meeting before and after the lecture, mainly girls ages 19-23
0.5 Spray MX353, 1 Spray IG, 1 Spray Shine (all on throat), dabs of Gucci Guilty on backs of both hands, applied about 15 minutes before the event
Mixed results
So I wanted to try something new. Someone had recommended to me to use MX353 and IG (he emphasized that IG was important for it work). The original recommendation was 2xMX353 and 0.5 IG but I thought that may be too strong for the target group.
I used half a spray of MX353 but positioning a piece of paper between the TOGO and my skin. I seemed to have a imed correctly. I asked an older female friend of mine who is in on the mones what she thought and she said that it was quite strong and I only use a little of it and I need to be careful, under no circumstances apply more.
There is one more thing about the MX353 TOGO that I discovered only this evening. This was a TOGO that had had leakage in the past because the cap was not screwed on tightly, and about 60% of it had evaporated over time until I undestood what was happening and screwed on the top really tight. So I don't know if the composition / the ratio of mones had changed somewhat over time...
But I wanted to try it anyway and thought that the 1xIG and 1xShine might buffer any unbalanced mones.
At the event I was greeted by two
guys who I had gotten known over the last events. They were friendly but soon moved away (they created more space between us) and after that moved to different places and different people.
I passed a few girls, one of them
said instinctively Hi (I didn't speak with her before)
Many girls might have been intimidated, though not in an extreme way.
One of the guys who had moved away earlier approached me again and we were talking. Then a
young women from England, good looking, approached me more or less directly and introduced herself. She was really influenced by the mones (I guess). She was trembling when she was speaking with me, pretty much all over her body (head, arms, everything). Never saw this before I think. I guess the mones (in particular none ?) were having an effect on her.
While talking with her and the
guy who I met first that evening and another guy, the
guy who I met first that evening shook my hand for no apparent reason..
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..no idea, maybe IG?
After that I spoke with
the girl who seemed to respond stongly to A314B spray who I wrote about in the first post (attraction and one huge IOI but also intimidated) and in post #35 (friday evening semi-formal event, approached me), we said 'Hi' at the same time. Standing next to her was the girl who had
instictively said Hi.
The girl who had been attracted by A314B seemed to be somewhat attracted and the conversation went positively I think. I told her good things about myself and how our conversation had helped me advance professionally and she seemed happy about it. At the same time I think that they were also intimidated. Both girls were moving further away than normal. They may have been standing 2-3 or perhaps even 4 feet away. Again, this is not normally the case. In fact I don't know if I've ever had a conversation of that sort with this interpersonal distance. I guess they were intimidated by the none.
I went inside the hall and met some male older acquaintances. The mones seemed to cause them to move away..
I said Hi to a friend because I had to say Hi to him (I was afraid that he might move away too). He is a really good guy, a bit shy and definitely genuine. I was sitting opposite of him 2 feet distance and he asked me about how everything went with something that I had to do. He acted normally, somewhat concerned, not very light-headed (even thought that may have been his mood that day). I noticed that he developed 2 red lines below each eye. Strange. I left with an excuse because I didn't know what was going on.
By and large, people were moving away from me. Not too nice.
There was one person who I know was a professional sold ier for some years, self-assured guy with dominance and authority, but really allright as a person and a fair guy. He approached me to shake my hand and he asked how I'm doing. He went on on his way. Don't know if he was repelled by me or not, but his behavior was normal, unlike that of the other male people. On the other hand, he didn't stay long in my proximity.
Later
guy who I met first that evening spoke to me shortly, this time friendly. To be honest, I'm starting to wonder if he is gay...
The only male who was positively (more or less) indifferent of scent was a man, approximately 50yo, faculty professor who I was sitting next to who seemed to be very absorbed in the lecture.
I noticed that the
girl where I had not given the best answer to her age-question responded in a positive way. She had her attention on me. This was the same girl who showed interest, asked me how old I am, I said 30 and that was the beginning of the end of the conversation. After that she did not really speak with me, except that on this saturday (post #36) there was a short exchange with her, that could have been friendlier but was ok.
This time she was interested again. We had a little small talk, definitely a big improvement.
After the lecture when people were going home I casually said 'bye' to her and (I don't remember whether or not she said that it was nice to see me) but she definitely said with some positive emotion that "I'll see you next time"
In the hall before the lecture I approached the
young women from England again. I actually had not been sure that she was from England because she hardly had any accent. I asked her if she was from England and I said that I also lived in England for a short time [which is true. Also two cousins of mine used to live there]. She asked me where I was living and to be honest, I wasn't prepared for this question. When I was living in England (which was a mistake alltogether) I was living in a crappy area. Perhaps not the worst place but really not too good an area.
I told her it's a longer story and I didn't know the place before I moved there [which is the truth] and I told her the name of the place and it was also as if I had given the wrong answer. Almost all of her attention was gone immediately. I went on to talk about my cousins, too very little avail (it seemed) and then I asked her if she knew some prominent people in student life there (who I do know) and that seemed to get her attention a little, but at that point another girl asked her something and the girl from England was basically not paying me any attention. I then moved on.
Interesting how there can be such a change from highly interested and (aroused/excited in a way?) to abruptly ending a conversation.
Have you guys experienced this?
When people were going, one guy who was in charge of the events showed people (including me) where they kept their drinks,plastic cups,etc. and the
young women from England happened to be there as well. She didn't seem to be pay any attention to, neither positive nor negative. I tried to say something to her, basically got no reaction.
Is this OD?
Well that is my report, bit long but I wanted to tell you all the details. Thank you all very much for all your advice and all your input.