Post: #1

Ever carry out the main character in a movie so smoothly it wasn't like acting at all?

It was as if you were so calm and centered you could improvise the role?

If you feel there are "MUST SEE" movies for REAL LIFE seduction, what are your top picks?

Romance is a big one with women.....

Let's start!

Whose going to go first?

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Post: #2

Not main character but Hon Solo in Empire Strikes back.

Post: #3

@metaltree: You mean the romantic romance "Star Wars"?

But yes, in my ol' man perspective all Harrison Ford is good, and I like all Daniel Craig's James Bonds.

But since the question was for main characters in 'romantic romances' or 'woman's movies' I would vote for Max Skinner played by Russell Crowe
in the Ridley Scott movie "A good year". While this is truly a movie for a female audience, it is made by a great director / main actor duo (same as "Gladiator" ).

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Key Scene:

In the key scene, she is highly pissed (rightful so) and confronts him. He (a kind of sympatic douch bag) keeps his composture and sees all her "bichtiness" -
as I said, she has good reason for it - just as a challenge to overcome: "She's fantastic!"

This is, imho, model male behavior...

Post: #4

Can't really recall a movie that is "romantic" in the sense that we're usually used to and has "real seduction". As a rule of thumb what you see in the movies is often a bit far fetched from reality, though anything can happen.

I liked Unfaithful (2002). It's pretty realistic in turn of love & seduction

Post: #5

How many people think movies are poor examples to emulate for real life seduction?

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Post: #6

(04-13-2022 6:17 PM)dsouza Wrote:  How many people think movies are poor examples to emulate for real life seduction?

Really depends on the movie and what you take from it.

Post: #7

(04-12-2022 6:29 PM)metaltree Wrote:  Not main character but Hon Solo in Empire Strikes back.

My main style icon!

Post: #8

Movies can be, and are, inspirational under the proper context.
The thing to remember is that while movies are fiction and the recipient of the gestures is scripted to respond in a particular way, guys that try these things in real life often flounder because they don't understand the true emotional dynamics of women, having been misguided by poor assumptions of foundation.

One uses such over-the-top gestures to deepen and to enhance emotions that are already there; that is the key and secret. Most misconstrue and assume that if they do this or that action, be it from a movie or from whatever new technique they chanced upon, that it will create the emotions. this is an egregious fallacy and that path, as Han Solo of Ben Kenobi would tell you, leads to the dark side.

Myself, I have, upon occasion, "borrowed" some of the moves and lines from movies to great effect. So long as you do it properly to deepen enchantment rather than to create it, you cannot go wrong.

Post: #9

(04-15-2022 10:09 AM)Gladen Wrote:  Movies can be, and are, inspirational under the proper context.
The thing to remember is that while movies are fiction and the recipient of the gestures is scripted to respond in a particular way, guys that try these things in real life often flounder because they don't understand the true emotional dynamics of women, having been misguided by poor assumptions of foundation.

One uses such over-the-top gestures to deepen and to enhance emotions that are already there; that is the key and secret. Most misconstrue and assume that if they do this or that action, be it from a movie or from whatever new technique they chanced upon, that it will create the emotions. this is an egregious fallacy and that path, as Han Solo of Ben Kenobi would tell you, leads to the dark side.

Myself, I have, upon occasion, "borrowed" some of the moves and lines from movies to great effect. So long as you do it properly to deepen enchantment rather than to create it, you cannot go wrong.

For me Han Solo is more like a movie character that I keep in mind when I buy a new (or second hand) jacket. Of course I am my own real life character in my own real life.

And of course it's always nice to have some pop-art references ready to mix in a conversation. (Though most women like my jackets, but they don't like star wars...)

Post: #10

Not to mention how many movies contain harassment, violence, etc that could get you arrested even if you tried to emulate the most tolerable of scenes.

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