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Friendliness and forgiving social anxiety/awkwardness
06-12-2022 7:08 PM
I'm socially awkward and have social anxiety in general. I'm looking for something that will help me get positive social feedback and help with my confidence.
My personality type is quiet, nervous and kind of cold at time. I'm not good at initiating conversations and being friendly with people. Agewise, I look around mid to late 20s.
What I'm looking for is:
1. Something that will have people overlook my awkwardness/social anxiety, in the sense that they won't be weirded out or avoid me or think I'm some social pariah if I'm awkward, nervous or not friendly around them.
2. Something that will have people coming up and being friendly to me, initiating conversations with me, being inviting and including me into things.
The usual social scenario for the mones will be if I'm in some new group (running, community services, board games, etc), meetup, a random bar crawl, etc where people don't really know each other and are trying to meet new people. I tend to not initiate conversations or people get bored of talking to me and talk to other people. It gets me nervous going into social situations where I don't know anyone and having the risk of ending up the weirdo that no one talks to in the group but this is the only way to make new friends as an adult. If I can go into these groups or meetups and start making friends and feeling included, it'll help with my confidence and social anxiety.
The other scenario is talking to or hitting on women. I'm looking for nones where if I show interest or try to talk to a woman, she will be nurturing and receptive to at least talking even if I'm socially awkward or nervous. I'm looking for the response of "I'm not interested in dating you but I want to be friendly to you to make your day" or "I'm not interested in dating you but I feel like I connect with you and want to be friends and talk to you more". Something to get me into the friend zone and avoid getting the "you're a creep, I'm going to avoid you" response.
I have tempered expectations and I'm okay with having no chance at getting laid. Right now, I'm mostly looking for something to help get my confidence up and get over my social anxiety and fear.
What mones would be good for what I'm looking for?
(This post was last modified: 06-12-2022 7:16 PM by definus.)
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RE: Friendliness and forgiving social anxiety/awkwardness
06-13-2022 9:57 AM
(06-13-2022 4:01 AM)warcheese Wrote: am now down to 175 from losing weight and feeling better in my self i also gain confidents
Good for you, I did pretty much the same (losing weight) and you're right you do feel better, not only from a health aspect but more importantly you feel better about yourself mentally which in turn then motivates you.
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RE: Friendliness and forgiving social anxiety/awkwardness
06-14-2022 8:25 AM
Possess by Liquid Alchemy Labs if you want to be more social and attract more people with your aura, or if you wanna embrace weirdness and awkwardness and turn it into a weapon try Voodoo at your own risk.
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Testers: Voodoo, Evolve, Taboo, Xist , Ascend, Vibe
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RE: Friendliness and forgiving social anxiety/awkwardness
06-14-2022 2:26 PM
(06-14-2022 8:25 AM)TracerX Wrote: Possess by Liquid Alchemy Labs if you want to be more social and attract more people with your aura, or if you wanna embrace weirdness and awkwardness and turn it into a weapon try Voodoo at your own risk.
would be a bold move or a great move lol for him
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RE: Friendliness and forgiving social anxiety/awkwardness
06-14-2022 2:35 PM
honestly i think some of yall are missing the point. if you use mones without fixing the problem then it not gonna work
1) if he has problem talking to people and is scared of talking or feeling weird then he need work on himself first
2) phermones are not a magic pill were you can slap it on and expect it to do everything for you.
3) having confident is key if you go to girl try hitting on them and timied your gonna get rejected even men
phero not gonna fix everything 50% is how you look 50% your mindset/confidents and phero is a extra add buffer to everything to set you apart from other
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RE: Friendliness and forgiving social anxiety/awkwardness
06-14-2022 6:33 PM
(06-14-2022 2:35 PM)warcheese Wrote: honestly i think some of yall are missing the point.
Nope, not at all. Just suggesting a few products that may help open the door, all things considered.
Some will always be introverted and/or anxious/anti-social - awkward, but if a pheromone can even help a little, I'd call that a success.
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