(12-19-2017 1:54 AM)onlythebest Wrote: I tend to leave women that think all guys are scum bags alone. Other guys can try and change that perception of hers if they so desire.
Yes, there are definitely the targets which are so problematic...that even getting that lay from them is not worth the effort. Though nonetheless, If I had been in your shoes....I would have cut her shit short about slandering my image in the workplace...especially when I didn't do anything to warrant such slander.
Certain types to avoid:
1)die hard feminists..could be lesbians subconsciously;...especially the ones who may have previously read 'The Rules' by Ellen Fein & Sherrie Schneider....a feminist bible that instructs them how to act masculine and mistreat men. Learn to recognize a 'Rules girl' and run for the first exit.
2)the cryers;..try to manipulate men by crying.
3)the fighters; ones which make an effort to create arguments ALL THE TIME...usually on controversial topics e.g., 'what is your opinion on abortion?'...not worth opening Pandora's box. It is always more important to argue than enjoy romance/fun things. Waste of time considering there is plenty of willing game hopping about. These are also the ones which are perennially single...Gee, I wonder why
4) nutcases - ones which are damaged goods one way or the other ...no fun, EVER.
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Very interesting that that brunette was so kind to you. I guess she must have just felt bad.
Very difficult to gauge, but I didn't care. Interestingly (but logically), it seemed like the few men that work there...were more respectful (especially when I followed up with Ascend/w cops - 2 sprays side of neck) holding a door open for me and going out of his way to unlock a door for me. Though one beta/ SJW-type/enabler married guy (his wife works there) was giving me the guilty/disgust look..greeting me only with the utmost of reluctance...so f**k him, I don't need his acknowledgement. Water under the bridge...I am not sure, but I may have seen her a couple of weeks before (I don't go much now, I send my wife to do the 'dirty work'...it is amusing because my wife has remarked, 'why are those girls giving me 'funny looks'/ second takes when I go in there? Maybe, they know that YOU [me] are looking over their FB profiles!' My response: 'I don't give a f**k! Their FBs are public...anybody can look at them!'
hahhahahha...the nice part is that societal taboos/impediments keep their mouths shut...they don't have the proverbial balls to rat me out!..besides there is no firm proof other than she said/he said)...I believe that the brunette had a wedding band, but she could have been bored. Even before the shit hit the fan, I noticed this broad had a sly smile on and often also following me around...could have also been hit by the mone cloud. Her thinking/mannerism could have been bemusement at my predicament, pity, simply acting professional or actually
arousal.
To illustrate: I had a similar, but bolder incident back in the early 90s in college, last semester before graduation; I didn't give a shit. This is just prior to my discovering mones. Waiting for professor to show up in huge lecture hall...besides myself, several people already seated just talking in a group at the very front. Cute chick, brunette caucasian maybe 22 y.o....I bantered with her and as she was walking by, I groped her from behind, running my fingers along her crack towards her asshole. Her reaction had been shock and she simply said, 'Heeeeey, DON'T do that again!' There were several witnesses, including this older chick (maybe 35 - 40), dark skinned, black shiny hair who remarked, 'I just can't believe that you did that!' I remarked, 'well, sometimes I can get too wild for my own good!' In retrospect, I think that it was a bit foolish on my part, especially in today's climate of litigation...I was using more balls than brains. Since there were witnesses, the girl could have made a big stink about it...getting me into deep shit. Luckily, the target I felt up didn't do anything about it and she actually chatted more with me...hence, that could have been some sort of sign?!?! Anyway, the older chick...actually gave me a sly smile and struck up a conversation with me, flirting with me, telling me about her unique background of being Scottish, West Indies mix...and hinting that she'd be interested in getting together. However, I wasn't attracted to her....so I did not follow up. I had different prospects at the time.
Bottomline: Some will be shocked/turned off, while others will be attracted to the SOB guy. The older chick was undoubtedly experienced and hence, knew what she wanted;open to such adventures while the young chick gave all the signs of timidity/inexperience.