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RE: Physically getting to the girl
03-25-2017 12:27 PM
(03-25-2017 12:19 PM)metaltree Wrote: How do you guys approach in such places?
I don't.
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RE: Physically getting to the girl
03-25-2017 12:36 PM
(03-25-2017 12:27 PM)theLaw Wrote: I don't.
This.
Not a good place for pickup. Go with the less crowded places; approach, and make conversation.
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RE: Physically getting to the girl
03-25-2017 1:50 PM
I've been in those situations, and that's exactly what I do. Push, push, push, "Excuse me" with a light pat on the back. I get to her, say hi, start talking and before the first minute is over I've made some room for myself and her by bumping into guys, shoulder bumps with light scowls, and standing with my feet spread apart to take up more room. Don't be discouraged if you're not 6 feet tall with a big frame, the other guys are just as confused as you would be about who owns the territory around them if you hadn't received my advice.
That is my strategy, but I highly prefer bars that aren't packed to capacity and play music loud enough to hear but low enough to easily have a conversation. Irish pubs, gastropubs, neighborhood taverns, and even dive bars. I've had fun nights at clubby bars even when they're packed.
Regarding approach anxiety - she is being approached by multiple men in an evening and expects this. She'd be disappointed if she wasn't approached by men. On her side of perception, you're another guy that tried to sex her up and as long as you are aware that what you did by getting rejected was improving your approach confidence and how alpha you feel, while providing a self esteem boost to an insecure person who you could have been friends with had it not been for circumstances such as her drunk friends needing her, her period, being the designated driver, been having to take a shit for 20 minutes and not wanting to hold it in for another 45 minutes for a conversation with a man, or even being faithfully committed to another man, you are going to come out of the bar winning even without a broad hanging off your every word.
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RE: Physically getting to the girl
03-25-2017 2:22 PM
(03-25-2017 1:50 PM)BigDickBandit420 Wrote: I've been in those situations, and that's exactly what I do. Push, push, push, "Excuse me" with a light pat on the back. I get to her, say hi, start talking and before the first minute is over I've made some room for myself and her by bumping into guys, shoulder bumps with light scowls, and standing with my feet spread apart to take up more room. Don't be discouraged if you're not 6 feet tall with a big frame, the other guys are just as confused as you would be about who owns the territory around them if you hadn't received my advice.
Thanks for posting this. So looks like it can be done. ![Smile Smile](/images/smilies/smile.gif)
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