Post: #11

(12-12-2012 6:02 PM)lifeisgood7 Wrote:  whats the point on doing better in life? whats the point of making the best of current relationships? whats the point of going to the gym when you can just rub one out, lose energy, and go to bed?
but hey. ive learned a long time ago everyone has a different way of living so if this makes you happy, i support it

i become a monster
the longest i went without fapping and porn was about 100 days

I came back to edit since my original was far far to TMI

I find OP's implication that I'm cheating myself by fapping to be offensive

perhaps OP only produces the average 1-5ml of semen
this is what I find offensive, that he makes comments without knowledge of my particular condition, as if everyone is identical
NOT the case.

what do you suppose would happen to a fellow producing equal or greater volume than Peter North decided to just leave it in there?

pressure?
discomfort?
maybe aggression?

OP doesn't know and just because something works for him, or some guy on youtube, doesn't make it a universal remedy.

JS<----- one man bukakke video and angry sore mofo after 5 days no fap
100 days no fap = Carl Pranzram
does anyone really want that?

Post: #12

Great information

Post: #13

Just used MAX T-150 today. Instantly relapsed. Thanks, cuntaloupe stick.

Post: #14

(01-05-2014 3:50 AM)Ekscentra Wrote:  Just used MAX T-150 today. Instantly relapsed. Thanks, cuntaloupe stick.

lol, I survived but I can see how that could happen. My problem was that I could not stop smelling it.

You should install an porn blocker on your computer, like K9 Browser. The only thing that made me last the first 30 days, and after that it's a bit easier to not look at porn. I'm on day 91 now of 120 day reboot. Can't wait to start getting laid again, been very difficult and being in flatline is so fucked up but all a part of the addiction. Yet the difference it has made in my mood, energy and personality is simply amazing. I'm never going back to porn again.

Post: #15

I too follow the idea of no porn. Started with no fap also, but after like 1,5 moths my drive had escalated and then went back down to lower levels (I see this as a reboot). But with the no porn I feel like more of a man who actually appreciate real women again.

Post: #16

One of my more favored "PUA" books that were not so much into the PUA crap, but, more about making you a better you, had a great section on refraining from whacking. I wish I could tell you which book it was but I could not find which one it was after looking on my IPad.

It discussed the reasons not to use porn. It stated that when you really need to rub one out, you should think of one or some of the girls that you know and are presently pursuing, instead. It helps to keep it reality based, I guess.

The thing I thought was really wise was this: It discussed all of the reasons to save your sauce, especially for keeping your drive in high gear while chasing women. But it went on to discuss that if you need to spank it, you should. It said to target a specific night and to treat yourself. The thought process was that you should not allow yourself to get uptight or frustrated by your chasing and not getting any at the moment. You need to be number one, and to know that women don't hold anything over your head.

Myself, at age 50, I believe there is a happy medium here. Everything in moderation, including polishing the porpoise. I tend to let Mr. Happy off of the leash every couple of weeks. Remember the phrase "Use it or lose it"?
Well, Mr. Happy needs exercise too and I find that a day or two after he's had his pump-fest, he is wanting action more than ever. His tanks recharge fast and within a few days he is looking for a high-speed pursuit.
I just tend to think that you plateau at some point and it is almost better to keep a good balance during the drought versus abstaining until the pussy arrives.

I remember also reading an article about some guy (around 70 years old)
discussing the merits of masterbating but never reaching the point of a full orgasm. For him, climaxing was actually a bad thing. Keeps your dick like a little muscleman and your ability to control and refrain from climaxing is substantially improved. I couldn't have done this successfully a long time ago, but, I think it is a smart way to go at my age. Good for you in all regards. You drive is way up and when you get some you are the man.

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Been reading up on this, particularly all the stuff about dopamine levels. It made me wonder, do you think there's any risk between our pheromone use impacting our dopamine levels in some way? I'm a noob with science so I have no idea if this is a plausible scenario but it's worth asking as I might cut out pheromones along with fap/porn while I reboot.

Post: #18

The dosage used in pheromones is far from enough to have any real effect on neurotransmitters, even over the long term. The only thing to "reset" is the self-effects, which may recede or disappear after continous use.

Post: #19

I went for 1 month without jerking off one time, and when I finally came after that month, the sperm looked like this yellow jelly shit. It was all lumpy and yellow jello looking. This was dead sperm that had just sat in my balls for a month. This just can't be healthy. I think you gotta clean the pipes at least once a week.

Post: #20

Tried this and started getting wet dreams after a few weeks. IMO the best way to approach it is to see what the frequency of the wet dreams are and then to fap slightly more often than that. And try to fap about real women in your life rather than using outside stimulation.

Its the outside stimulation that causes problems, at least for me.