Post: #1

Sup fellas.

You read the title. Yeah, it happened... the subject of a lot of my pheromone use over the last 6 months finally couldn't take it anymore. Not gonna, I am pretty disappointed, but still happy it's finally over.

Let me backtrack a bit so you know where I'm going.

About 8 months ago-

We basically were friends for a long time before we got together. She was dating someone else, as I was. When she was about to break it off with her boyfriend, she was trying to lure me in and I took the bait. I did genuinely like her, and it was all good.

About 2 months ago-

We'd had our fights and arguments about normal relationship stuff before. We got over it, and went back to being good with eachother. It was only in the last 2 months that she started getting shitty and pretending that we were better off as 'friends". This really started to annoy me because I knew where it was going.

She was starting big arguments over the most dumbass little things, and trying to talk to me like I was scum. Well I didn't take it very well. I don't get disrespected very often, and she was doing it right to my face.

Here's how it went in short. She started acting shitty (because she wanted to leave). She started pointless arguments. She then starts blaming us being "together" that our relationship is "failing". Then she said she wants to fix it (apparently). If you understand anything about females, you'll realize she just wanted a pain free exit strategy.

Heres where I'm at now.

I couldn't believe she was willing to throw everything away over 2-3 weeks lately. We were fine, but we live apart and I have been extremely busy and haven't been able to see her. Well I'm not going to give her the pleasure of having me as a "friend", just so she can boost her ego and string me along. Today, I told her that I don't want to see her again or have her as a friend.

An hour later, she snapchatted me a picture saying shes "overly happy", but I know shes probably just trying to get a response out of me.

Where did it go wrong?

It was bound to happen. Shes the kind of person who doesn't compromise and thinks shes always right. This resulted in us butting heads constantly after a while. No appreciation for anything she gets or has. She starts taking things for granted and expecting constant attention and gifts.

Shes also got a lot of guy friends and gets angry at me when I tell her it makes me uncomfortable. Why does she go out of her way to see them and not me? Because shes looking for a better deal and she probably already has one (in her mind).

The moral of the story is fellas, don't drop your guard in a relationship. I will admit that I did bend my stern rules in favor of having less arguments and more harmony in the short term. I let things slide that bugged me. There was a line I didn't want to cross and that was being "bossy" and telling her what to do. With girls who are truly down for you no matter what, there is a compromise point where you both make agreements for eachother.

In this relationship, there was none. There could have been if I kept being the same asshole I was at the beginning. I let myself change. Even though I was the one who didn't want the relationship in the first place (she begged and pleaded, thanks Nude Alpha), it still ended up being somewhat painful.

Oh well. We live and learn, and I just got a new mental preworkout that saved me $60 this month. Cool. And I'm actually excited to get back into the game. Its been a while!

Post: #2

Sorry bro. Probably your're still young and that things happens.

Keep calm, value what you have learned and lived, and stay fantastic as you are. Move on, there are more cuties waiting to sniff you.

On the other side of the field relationships seem something very impervious to any damage but truth is that is a delicate harmony between egos that require effort every day and never take anything for granted.

Post: #3

Thanks Khan Solo, I'm just 23 and I want to own my business some day, I should focus on that anyway Theres just too much going on to worry about these things. Plenty of good women out there.

Post: #4

You have a lot of time and youth and pheromones and abundance

Post: #5

LIFE is living and learning.

There are stories like this all over the world. And when enough becomes enough, it's enough. Too many let their ego lead them ... some, call it pain.

You will, either, be fine, or you won't. There are no other options.

WARNING: BEWARE of any person who often looks for AND expects gifts. Normally, they don't live for MATTERS OF THE HEART.

Post: #6

Sorry to hear that, I am in the same boat but all last week.

Keep yourself as number 1 in your head and you will do great. This is my first weekend single for a while and I can't wait.

Post: #7

Phertest,

Sorry to read the news. Soon you will see that it's for the better. Just move on, occupy your mind with testing and your business plans for the future. Be honest with yourself. If she asked you back today would you go? Yes is not the correct answer.

She seems a little spiteful by breaking up and the saying she's overly happy. That's just mean. If you have any contact via voice or text , be extremely happy and relieved that the relationship is over. Though, this will make her a little nuts and she may sweeten up to you to regain power.

Too much drama so get out there and test some more mones.

FD

Post: #8

Thanks for the support fellas. Appreciate it. There's no way I'm lowering myself and taking her back. I have work and a lot of study taking up my time, so I'm gonna keep myself occupied.

FD, yeah she is a bit of a drama queen, and frankly it was getting too much. If she didn't pull the trigger I would have myself pretty soon anyway. Hmm... I've decided not to maintain any contact with her at all. No social media, texts or calls and told her that too. If I start being friendly, she'll try to get the upper hand again.

"An idle mind is the devils playground"

Post: #9

She wants you to stick around until she finds someone else. Don't be her emotional rag, you deserve better than this female game.

Post: #10

(04-03-2014 10:34 AM)KIMBA Wrote:  She wants you to stick around until she finds someone else. Don't be her emotional rag, you deserve better than this female game.

+ 1 zillion

The "vines theory" is a solid one.