Post: #1

Thanks for sharing your experiences, guys! You've been very helpful.


I am looking to be more approachable, leave good impressions on people, and that's it. I'm not looking to "game" or "score."

I have a slightly intimidating look - I'm black, muscular, shaved head, huge beard (close friends joke and claim I'm apart of the ISIS), and I really don't engage in small talk unless it's presented to me. I feel like people around me do everything in their power to avoid me. Straight black men (at least in America) have a stereotype of being "smooth playaz" and "class-clowns". Since I am not either of those, I feel as though I come off intimidating... aloof and pretentious.

I'd like to find a mone that makes both men & women comfortable around me. With my physical physique, I find guys trying to "test" me to see if I take the bait and "fight" back. Even at the gym, guys bigger than me will "test" me. Women avoid me all together unless they know me.

I am 99.9% sure it's because of my physical appearance.

So I am looking for mones that will make people relax around me.

From what I've read, I should try Aqua Vitae. Aqua Vitae appears to make women voluntarily engaging in conversation. I haven't been able to see what effect it has on other men. I'm guessing the same?

Again, I'm not looking to game or score. I just want folks to feel at ease around me.


Any other suggestions I might have missed?

Thanks in advance!

Post: #2

Wolf. Or Nude. Aqua Vitae is exactly the wrong thing to try if you want people to feel comfottable around you.

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Post: #3

Dude, Wolf sounds perfect for your needs. AV will just make you more intimidating.

Post: #4

Wolf is always mentioned when people ask about smoothing out an intimidating personality or look. I've never tried it, but maybe it's the best for that. However, since you specifically mentioned making yourself approachable so that people will come up to you and talk, I would recommend Hypnotica. I don't know about you guys, but where I'm from, people don't just walk up to others and talk to them. I do that because I use pheromones, but I wouldn't assume that there's something wrong with you because girls don't just walk up to you and chat you up.

Post: #5

AV imo will only exasperate the problem you have. Wolf is a much better choice if you want to seem less intimidating and more approchable.

Post: #6

Thanks for the quick and prompt replies!

I will do more research on Hypnotica, and I probably will pull the trigger on Wolf/Hypnotica next Friday!


Thanks again!

Post: #7

I'm pulling the trigger today!



That is the one I should get, right?

Please advise!

Thanks!

Post: #8

Yes, ask for it in a euro dropper (or bulb dropper if you prefer). You can ask Garry to send you a sample of hypnotica if you are just getting the wolf.

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Post: #9

I recall reading that Garry (the owner of the store) created Wolf for himself so he can seem more approachable. I agree, ask for a sample of hypnotica.
Definitely don't go with AV. I have read the positive and negative experiences from other members and the negatives is what you are trying to avoid. I tested AV on very few occasions and I experienced both as well. I actually did get a response of "ok stop, you're freaking me out" in a nervous laugh as well as "ok you don't have to be angry" when I simply said "you can add milk in your coffee" (I was saying it in a normal tone!! After all, why would I be angry about something like that lol)....both by same girl btw.

Post: #10

(02-05-2016 12:57 PM)Alphonse Wrote:  Yes, ask for it in a euro dropper (or bulb dropper if you prefer). You can ask Garry to send you a sample of hypnotica if you are just getting the wolf.

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Thanks for the tip! Will do!

(02-05-2016 1:07 PM)ShadowX114 Wrote:  I tested AV on very few occasions and I experienced both as well. I actually did get a response of "ok stop, you're freaking me out" in a nervous laugh as well as "ok you don't have to be angry" when I simply said "you can add milk in your coffee" (I was saying it in a normal tone!! After all, why would I be angry about something like that lol)....both by same girl btw.

That's WILD! I definitely don't want anything like that! I already get enough dirty looks with my huge beard which resembles beards that the ISIS men have (black African descent).